you know there is no easy way to know when when to leap. in fact  when your child is a pre - teen there is no way of knowing. when they say : " why can't you treat me llike  I'm a big girl/boy WALK AWAY it's a trap oh yeah you better believe it is. because the moment you do treat them  like a big kid the  scream why can't you just let me be a kid. in other words it's i am only  grown up when it's good for me and not so good when you need  me to be. they are so lost in this world its bond to…

So i have four children ,two in which are young. my son Tai and my daughter Jozey . Jozey was potty trained but since her three year old brothers been around she acts up and wants to  pee in bed  then get up, pee on her rug in her room and even  while playing. at first i thought  with some of it it was she did not want to miss any thing  that was going on. then i even thought could it be she wants extra attention,so  my husband both try to give her that one on one extra behavior. so we have…